Welcome to the Quingdom 👑

This is what I want it to feel like when you are here. We are having lunch together in the tropical location of your choice, and it doesn’t just taste great, it feels great.

The Quingdom is where you get to live into a framework for life that helps you to see where you may be stuck in victim consciousness toward a remembrance of your most empowered and creative self.

The reason I write here is to remind you that there's royalty, the masculine and the feminine, the king and the queen within you. When you remember it, you can live it, be it and exemplify it for others. By doing this, you contribute to the new future reality we’ve come here to create, together. Let’s rise y’all.

If I’m a Quing, you can be a Quing too.

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• The Well-Being of the “Empire” — the internal and external reality we create.

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About Me:

If we haven’t met yet, I’m Ali Katz. 😻

I’ve been documenting my path online since at least 2008, when I created the Intrepid Mompreneur blog: Being Afraid and Doing It Anway.

Back then, my name was Alexis Martin Neely. I was on my first rise to success, and winning the game. A law practice I built to 7-figures and sold (making about $1M of mistakes along the way), an online Dan Kennedy style “info-marketing” business selling sales and marketing strategies and techniques to lawyers and legal education to families and business owners, a best-selling book on legal planning for families, and appearing on TV as a family, financial and legal expert.

But something was way off, and as we approached the 2012 consciousness shift, my own consciousness was cracking open.

While I had already experienced a number of “awakenings” in the form of my mind, my body, and my soul … those stories are juicy AF, and I’ll share them here over time, I was still very much unfulfilled, lost, confused and desperately seeking something. I really had no idea what it was though.

In September 2009, Ayahuasca called me to her altar, to show me what it was. This was back at a time when “plant medicine” wasn’t well-recognized as a path, and I was really embarking on a road less traveled. I got over the parts of myself that judged people who used “drugs as medicine” and went in to see for myself.

That night I “saw” — or maybe felt is a better word, though back then, I didn’t know much about “feeling” (feeling our feelings is actually a relatively new phenomena) — a world that works for everyone.

It literally looked and felt like this image by Jessica Perlstein, which she created as concept art for the book the Fifth Sacred thing by Starhawk, a book I didn’t read until far later, but deeply resonated with my 2009 journey.

Then, over the following 3 months of 2009, I re-entered the world I had created, and discovered that I was creating a world that worked for no one other than myself. And, it barely even did that.

Everything I had learned about leadership was all wrong. I now understand it as the toxic patriarchy that was living inside me, and most of us who are in positions of power.

It took me more than 10 years to really understand, and fully integrate what I saw in that journey space back in September 09, and it wasn’t until I got to Egypt in April 2023 that it all fully landed.

The transmission I received came from the female King, Hatshepsut. She showed me that I can be King, and embody my most full feminine self as well. In fact, I must.

Because if I can, you can.

It’s time for each of us to live our most royal, integrated selves.

We don’t need to fragment, or split - be one version here, and another there, but integrate. I already knew it logically, but my time in Egypt gave me the visceral, fully body, integrated knowing.

It’s what the Quingdom is all about. How we can create a world that works for everyone. Both/and. Matriarch/patriarch. Queen/king.

Hierarchy is needed. And so is integral consciousness. We can do this.

This is what I’ll be exploring here and sharing with you.

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